篇一:《永恒的孤独陪伴800字》
永恒的孤独陪伴800字
永恒的孤独陪伴
我的影子丢了，丢失在了迷失城里。题记
少女修长的身影伫立在马路边，看着如蚂蚁般忙碌来往的人群，她的心灵和表情早已同样木然。果然哦，世间轮回人们来了又走，而我身边还是没有任何一个人，朋友、家人一个都没有。琳试图扬起僵硬的嘴角作出幸福的微笑，可最后还是无奈的撇撇嘴转身走掉，决绝，毫不留恋。
曾经琳有一个单纯的直白的朋友，在她看过琳的作文后，说出了一句杀死了琳好多脑细胞的话。
阿琳，你的文章有种悲伤的味道。悲伤吗？我拥有这种东西吗？
有的。我的影子这么说道，在你一个人时、发呆时、莫名其妙就流泪时，它都在，一直都在你的身边。
你是谁？
我是影子，你唯一的影子，一直都在，在你的身边。
你又怎么会懂我的心情呢？琳的脸纠结到了一起。
影子笑了因为我就是你啊，我们是同一人，同一魂。
琳与影子的头发忽的被风吹的飞扬起来。琳哭了，她抽噎着，可是影子并没有安慰她。
为什么一开始不出现？为什么不安慰我？为什么......
琳影子无奈的用手摸摸她的头，你要记住，每个人都会悲伤，没有人的人生是一帆风顺的。人们在迷茫无措时，也许有时会被其他人一语点醒，但更多的是依靠着自己的力量清醒过来。而我们，人们唯一的影子们，只能默不作声的在你们身边，一同感受着你们的快乐和悲伤。
那......会一直在一起吗？琳难得孩子气的扬起脸问。
会一直在一起，哪怕，在你死后。影子明白琳心中所想，但是，会很孤单的，我......
我们是同一人，同一魂嘛。琳凝视着那和自己一模一样的面容，我会依靠自己的。
后记：
人们很笨，明明不到百年生命却妄谈理想，明知世事无常却期待永恒。出生和死去时时刻刻都在发生，但这一切的一切，都需要自己方能挺过。
如果你感到了孤单，请看看你的脚底，环顾一下四周你的影子还在。影子依然在遵守着它和你从一出生起就互相答应的无形承诺陪伴。
笑一笑吧，影子一直都在，在你的身边。你孤独，但却又都不孤独，就像琳一样。
篇二:《老人的孤独》
老人的孤独
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摘要：老龄化的不断加深，社会的进步，老人们的内心也随之多了一份孤单。他们缺少一个人的陪伴，缺少一份温暖，渴望来自于家庭.世界的关怀，羡慕家庭间的那种天伦之乐。每个老人他们需要的是子女的悉心照顾与陪伴，那种精神与心灵上的慰藉与关怀，而不是金钱与物质的满足。
关键词：孤寡老人;家庭;孤独;陪伴;温暖
陪他们，聊聊往事，回忆过去，一起吃个家常饭。可是这些，对于他们来说就像是一种愿望，一种奢侈的幸福，是那样的可望而不可即。子女天真的以为 给父母金钱与物质上的满足就是最好的回报，其实他们不知道父母真正需要的是子女的陪伴，是一顿家常便饭。
孤独的他们需要的是一个倾听的对象。因为老龄化问题的加深，很多志愿者都会去敬老院养老院做义工，陪伴这些老人。当你花一点点的时间去倾听他们的故事，你会发现他们那长满皱纹的脸上多了一丝的笑容，眼里充斥者泪水，随着社会老龄化的程度的加深，老龄化问题日益突出，空巢老人越来越多，空巢老人的现象引人关注，似乎在不经意间已成为不容忽视的社会问题。
生活中，不少空巢老人的心灵被孤独填满着。在老人的心里，他是一个被世人遗忘，拒绝，无人关心的孤寡老人。当他们的世界变得冷清，感觉自己被抛弃的时候，内心的孤独感就油然而生，心理也渐渐趋于脆弱，怀疑自己的存在价值，对生活持有悲观的态度，他们的情绪也随之受到影响，变得抑郁甚至对生活绝望，看不到丝毫的希望。无依无靠的他们没有老伴的陪伴，也没有来自子女的陪伴与奉养，生活艰辛，内心孤苦，渐渐地使他们陷入孤独的泥坑 。他们的内心缺少了一种温暖，一种来自于家庭的爱与关怀。不论曾经的他们是多么的辉煌，生活是多么的熠熠生辉，然而如今的他们只是一个孤寡老人，一个渴望拥有亲人关怀的老小孩，一个满脸沧桑的糟老头。没有人愿意停下脚步，坐下来倾听他们的故事，陪他们聊聊天。
每一个老人最渴望的是陪伴，是一种温暖与关怀。曾经我也不会去关注一个老人是否有人陪伴，是否需要一个倾听的对象。渐渐地，随着老龄化问题的日益严重，我开始注意孤寡老人，关注他们的动态，关注养老院。突然发现，其实这些老人的愿望很简单，只是希望有人可以给予他们精神和心灵上的关心，而非物质与金钱上的满足。他们的子女给予他们金钱与物质上的满足并不是他们所需要，比起这些，他们更希望子女可以抽出时间陪眼神变得更加的有神，更加的慈爱，仅仅因为终于有一个人愿意陪伴他倾听他的心声。你会猛然的发现他们真的需要一个倾听者，一个可以耐心聆听他们故事的人，当他们向你滔滔不绝讲诉完他们年轻时候的一些英勇事迹，你会发现曾经的他们是那样的光荣，是那样的威严，而如今他们只是一个在渴望拥有陪伴的孤独老人。因为世间的冷漠，人间的沧桑让他们这对个世界感到陌生和无助，羡慕他人的家庭间的天伦之乐，渴望幸福，渴望拥有一个安详幸福的晚年。
孤独是一种没人陪伴的寂寞与无助，孤独是一种由内而外的孤寂的情绪。每个人献出一份爱，努力的去温暖孤独的老人，给他们一份爱的关怀。每个子女常回家看看，给年迈的父母一份心灵的慰藉 ，而不是金钱与物质的满足，或许他们的晚年会更加的有意义，更加的幸福，心底也会滋生出一份不一样的温暖。
篇三:《老年人孤独》
14 Ways to Help Seniors Avoid Isolation十四种帮助老年人避免与世隔绝的方法
19 Apr 2016 By : Jeff Anderson作者：杰夫.安德森2016年4月19日
Loneliness and social isolation have been clearly linked to poor health outcomes. “A Review of Social Isolation” by Nicholas R. Nicholson published in The Journal of Primary Prevention, observes how “social isolation has been demonstrated to lead to numerous detrimental health effects in older adults, including increased risk for all-cause mortality, dementia, increase risk for rehospitalization, and an increased number of falls.”Ways to Help Seniors Avoid Social Isolation 孤独和与世隔绝跟不良健康状况有着直接的联系。尼古拉斯.R.尼科尔森发表在《一级预防》期刊上的《论与社会隔离》阐述了这种联系是如何作用的，“与世隔绝已被证明会对老年人的健康造成许多不利的影响，这些影响包括总括性死亡率和痴呆症的提高，并且增加了再入院治疗和患病的风险。”
Unfortunately, isolation among seniors is alarmingly common, and will continue to increase in prevalence as the population grows. Learn how to help your loved ones stay healthy by reading more on the top ways to help seniors avoid isolation.
不幸地是，这种与世隔绝在老年人当中普遍得令人忧虑，且随着人口增长会越来越普遍。通过阅读一些有效帮助老年人预防社会隔绝的方法来帮助你爱的人一直健康下去吧。
Ways to Help Seniors Avoid Isolation
“A Review of Social Isolation” notes that the prevalence of isolation among “community dwelling older adults” or seniors who live at home rather than senior living communities, may be as high as 43%.
《论与社会隔绝》中提到，这种与世隔绝更不易出现在居住在社区中的老年人当中，而住在养老社区或者住家的老年人罹患社会隔绝的概率比其高百分之四十三。
“With a prevalence of over 40% and the sheer number of older persons projected to increase exponentially… social isolation will likely impact the health, well-being and quality of life of numerous older person now and in the foreseeable future.”
Considering the demonstrated risks and the increasing prevalence of this issue, it’s certainly worth addressing how we can promote social integration among our older loved ones, and even ourselves – for it has been shown that family caregivers are themselves at a high risk of social isolation.
随着社会隔绝超过百分之四十的增长和老年人中的人数越来越多，以后的指数性增长也不难预料„在当今社会和能预知的未来，社会隔绝会对老年人的健康幸福以及生活质量造成（不良）影响。
考虑到社会隔绝已被证实的风险和越来越快的增长的问题，我们如何提高老年人中的社会交往这一问题十分值得处理，而且我们这些家庭的看护者们也面临着很高的社会隔绝比率，也
算是为了我们自己。
Here are the top ways to promote connectedness and social health:
这里有一些有效提高连通性和大众的健康的方法
1. Make Transportation Available
Lack of adequate transportation is a primary cause of a social isolation. Because many seniors do not drive, this is a big issue for them, so anything that helps seniors get around and make independent choices about travel promotes their social health. Creating a solid public transportation infrastructure and providing special transportation options to seniors and disabled people will help promote their social integration. For example, our blog recently reported that giving free buses to seniors promotes their health. Family offering rides to older loved ones and helping them to learn to use public transportation will also help them maintain social connections and a healthy sense of independence.
造成社会隔绝的首要原因即是缺少足够的交通工具。因为大部分老年人都不会开车，这对他们来说算是个大问题，所以只要可以帮助他们到处逛逛和让他们去旅游都能提高他们社交健康。建造稳定的运输基础设施，以及向老年人和行动不便的人提供特殊的交通工具都能帮助提高他们与社会的融合。举例来说，我们的部落格最近报道了一件事，让老年人搭免费的公车能有助于他们的健康。家人为老人们提供搭乘并且帮他们学习使用交通工具，这样做会帮老人维系与社会的关联并让他们有一种相对健康的独立感。
2. Promote Sense of Purpose
Seniors with a sense of purpose or hobbies that interest them are less likely to succumb to the negative effects of social isolation. Besides providing a sense of purpose, many hobbies and interests are inherently social in nature. Anything that involves a group, for example, playing bridge, could be said to be socially healthy. If a senior is bereft of ideas for what to do, there are always planned events at the local senior center. Volunteering is also great way of maintaining and expressing a sense of purpose. Encouraging seniors to remain active in their hobbies and interests, and providing them opportunities to volunteer can help them maintain their sense of purpose and keep them from becoming isolated and lonely.
有目标的和拥有业余爱好的老人们会更少受到社会隔绝的消极影响。除了提供目标，许多兴趣爱好都是固有社交活动中需要的。涉及到一个小团体的任何事情，例如玩桥牌，都可以被认作是有助于社交健康的。即使一个老人不想做任何事，当地的老年人中心也总是会计划一些活动。志愿活动一直是一个平衡需求和表达目标的很好方法。鼓励老人们去积极对待自己的兴趣爱好，并且给他们提供当志愿者的机会，这样做能帮助他们维持目标感，也能让他们变得不那么与世隔绝和孤独。
3. Encourage Religious Seniors to Maintain Attendance at their Places of Worship
For seniors who have been regular churchgoers, this weekly social connection has been shown to be quite beneficial. Nicholson’s review observed that many studies have shown the benefits of churchgoing for seniors: “Those frequently attending religious services have been found to have lower mortality rates than those with infrequent attendance.” Older church goers not only benefit from the social interaction and sense of purpose that weekly worship provides, but they also benefit from the watchful eye of other churchgoers, who are likely to recognize a decline in an isolated senior that may have gone unnoticed otherwise.{孤独的老人需要陪伴800字}.
对那些经常去教堂的老人来说，这种一周一次的社会交往十分有益。尼科尔森在论文中表示许多调查都显示了做礼拜对老人很有帮助，“经常去参加宗教活动的人比不经常的死亡率更低”。经常去教会的老人，不仅从每周礼拜的规定受益匪浅，即得到社会交往和目标感，而且从其他教众关注的目光中得到有利影响，他们可能会认为那些孤独老人的一次拒绝会造成被忽视。
4. Give a Senior Something to Take Care Of
Many experts note that the act of nurturing can relieve feelings of social isolation. In the peer reviewed paper “Emotional Benefits of Dog Ownership,” Eve Beals succinctly outlines the benefits of nurturing a pet: “Pet owners remain engaged socially, have less depression, suffer less loneliness, feel more secure, have more motivation for constructive use of time and require less medication than non-pet owners. Animal companionship facilitates establishing friends, is a social lubricant, gives a reason to get up in the morning and is an icebreaker.” Obviously, you would need to make certain that the senior is capable and willing to properly care for the pet before giving a pet as a gift. Assuming the senior is capable of caring for a pet, nurturing and caring for an animal companion can be quite beneficial. Even tending a garden can satisfy our nurturing drive, so giving a senior a plant or gardening supplies as a gift can be beneficial too. 许多专家提到养育行为能减轻社会隔绝的感觉。在其他相像的论文中也提及此。伊芙.比尔斯简要阐述了养宠物的好处，“养狗的人能得到情感慰藉。宠物主人比那些不养宠物的人在社交中扮演被需要的角色，会更少感到沮丧，承受更少的孤独感，更有安全感，能更好运用时间，也不怎么需要药物治疗。宠物的陪伴是社交润滑剂，它减少了交朋友的困难，给你一个早起的理由，它同样是破除尴尬的好帮手。”但在给老人们宠物作为礼物之前，你必须得确认他们是否有能力并且乐意照顾宠物。如果老人有能力照顾宠物，那么老人养育和照料宠物，而他们得到宠物的陪伴，二者相得益彰。就算是种地也能满足我们培养的这种感觉，所以给老人们一棵植物或者园艺用品作为礼物也是同样有益的。
5. Encourage a Positive Body Image
Nicholson’s review notes that some research has shown that many older adults avoid social
interaction because of a poor body image. “Individuals with a poor body image attributable to being overweight may decrease or cease interactions with their social networks to the point where they could be at risk for social isolation. For example, individuals who are overweight may be self-conscious or embarrassed, and, therefore, less likely to engage in their social networks.” Compliments and positive comments can go a long way to boosting the self-esteem of seniors. Similarly, discouraging seniors from fretting over their appearance or catastrophizing the cosmetic effects of aging may help them avoid becoming self-conscious to the point that they avoid social interactions. For seniors who are genuinely overweight, addressing the root problem by encouraging weight loss through healthy eating and exercise can be helpful too, but always be positive and sensitive in efforts to encourage older loved ones to lose weight.
尼科尔森的论文提到调查显示，部分老人因为他们体弱多病的样子而不想社交。“孱弱的人因为超重而减少或干脆终止社会交往，因为他们觉得这样会被孤立。举个例子，超重的人们会很害羞或者窘迫，因此他们与社交圈子会尽少的接触。”赞扬的话和积极的评论会对提高老人们的自尊大有帮助。同样地，让老人们泄气，会让老人们担心他们的表现或灾难化表面效果，这会让他们变得害羞忸怩，即逃避社会交往。对于那些真正超重的老人，应当从根本上解决问题，通过鼓励他们健康饮食和锻炼，但一定要去积极理解他们减重。
6. Encourage Hearing and Vision Tests
Seniors with undiagnosed or untreated hearing problems may avoid social situations because of difficulty communicating or embarrasment. Encourage seniors to have their hearing checked and hearing problems treated. A hearing aid may be the only barrier between a senior and better social health. Vision tests are important too as sight problems “limit opportunities for social interactions with others” according Nicholson’s landmark review on social isolation research.
那些因未确诊和未得到治疗的而有听力问题的老人们因为他们沟通存在困难或者感到难堪，也会避免一些社交场合。鼓励他们去做听力检查和治疗。一个助听器可能是存在于老人和更好的社交健康中的唯一障碍。根据尼科尔森对于社交隔绝调查的主要观点，视觉检查对于视力问题同样重要，会“更少的机会与其他人的社交”。
7. Make Adaptive Technologies Available
Adaptive technologies, ranging from walkers to the above mentioned hearing aids, help seniors to compensate for age related deficits and deficiencies that can impede social interaction. Many seniors do not take full advantage of these devices. Sometimes they may be embarrassed because they don’t want to appear or feel old. In other cases, the device may be overly expensive and not covered by insurance. Both as a society and in our own families we can encourage and facilitate the use of adaptive aids that make it possible for seniors to have active and involved social lives.
让老人适应新技术，比如从助步器到上述的助听器，这能帮助他们弥补年龄相关的不足和消除对社交造成的阻碍。许多老年人不会充分运用这些电子设施。有时他们会因为不想展现出
自己已经老的样子，这可能让他们觉得不好意思。在其他情况下，是这些设施可能过于昂贵而且不能保险报销。社会和家庭可以一齐鼓励老年人适应和使用这些设备，使老年人能够积极参与社交活动中。
8. Notify Neighbors
Because socially isolated seniors may be vulnerable to a variety of unexpected problems and may have underlying issues such as dementia, their loved ones should consider informing members of the community that there is a vulnerable adult in the neighborhood. Trusted neighbors within a block radius or so should be introduced to the senior if feasible, informed about any particular issues the senior may have, and asked to keep a friendly eye out in case anything seems amiss. 由于不合群的老人更易遭受各种意想不到的问题，尤其是那些潜在的状况，如老年痴呆。老人的亲人应考虑在附近的社群中通知在他们之中有一位弱势成员。如果可行的话，相隔一个街区的可信的邻居或其他的人应当被介绍给老人，并向他们告知这位老人有可能会出现的问题，以防意外，也希望他们能多留意一下老人。
9. Encourage Dining with Others{孤独的老人需要陪伴800字}.
The act of eating with others is inherently social. In “Food and Eating: An Anthropological Perspective,” Robin Fox writes that eating is “a profoundly social urge. Food is almost always shared; people eat together; mealtimes are events when the whole family or settlement or village comes together. Food is also an occasion for distributing, giving and sharing for the expressing of altruism, whether from parents to children, children to in-laws, or anyone to visitors and strangers.” Encourage seniors to share a meal with others whenever possible, whether it’s with a church group, the local senior center, or a friendly café or diner. Dining with others is also likely to help promote better nutrition, which is crucial for the elderly.
与他人进餐也是一种社交。罗宾.福克斯在《食品与饮食：人类学视野》中把用餐写作“是一项深度的社交需求。食物几乎都是大家共享的；人们一起用餐；当家人一起或是搬进新居亦或是村庄集会时，用餐时间是十分重要的。食物同样也能表达分享和利他主义，不论是长辈给予孩子，孩子分享给家长，或是任何人分享给访客或者陌生人。”鼓励老人与可能的人在任何时间共享一餐，不管是在一个教团、当地老年人中心或者是在一家咖啡厅或餐馆。与他人用餐也是帮助老人们获得对他们来说更好的营养。
10. Address Incontinence Issues
For obvious reasons, a senior who experiences incontinence may be hesitant to leave their home and could become isolated. When family caregivers and health professionals make sure that incontinence issues are appropriately addresses, for example through medications and
篇四:《孤独之美(800字)作文》
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