篇一:《父亲给女儿的信》
A Letter to My College-Bound Daughter
给将上大学的女儿的一封信——来自爸爸的“大学理财经”
Dear Lexie,
亲爱的莱克西：
On your first day of college, let me congratulate you on your well-earned freedom. No more curfews. No more being dragged places you'd rather not be. No more of Dad's teachable moments about responsibility, opportunity...life. And no more boring lessons about after-tax income, saving, borrowing, compound returns and growth stocks.
在你上大学的第一天，首先祝贺你获得了应得的自由。不再有宵禁，不再被拉去不想去的地方，不用再听爸爸那些关于责任、机遇之类的人生说教，也不用再上税后收入、储蓄、借贷、回报率、增长股等枯燥乏味的课程。
While we're on the subject of “no more,” let me gently mention that it applies to the car you've been driving too, and my gas card and your allowance. Freedom, you see, has its price. Sorry, I couldn't resist one more teachable moment.
我们正讲到“不用再怎样”，让我稍微提一下，这也包括你开的车，我给你的汽油费和零用钱。你瞧，自由也是有代价的。抱歉，我又情不自禁说教了一回。
I know that you will study hard and explore all the great things that a university has to offer. You are ready for this and, frankly, so am I. Your freedom and a degree of mine come wrapped together.
我知道你不仅会刻苦学习，还会尝试大学提供的一切美好的事情。你已经为此作好准备，坦白地说，我也一样。在某种程度上，我的自由与你的自由密不可分。
Yet I can't help but worry that you may get tripped up with money issues. It's easy to do, especially when you're just starting out. But happily, it's also fairly easy to avoid. So if you'll just indulge me one last time, I'd like to offer some parting financial wisdom for your first semester and beyond.
可是我担心你有可能陷入财政危机。这极有可能发生，特别是你才刚刚开始独立。但庆幸的是要避免也很容易。因此，如果你再容忍我一次，我想最后告诉你一些在第一学期以及将来的理财秘诀。
You are fortunate to have parents that can take care of your biggest bills—tuition, room and board, transportation home. But the rest, dear child, is up to you. It would be a shame for you to end up in debt with your modest earning ability right now (the average credit card balance for college seniors: nearly $3,000). So estimate all of your expenses over the next 17 weeks and compare that with your available resources. Looking at the whole semester, not just a sample week, makes plain how recurring expenses add up—like, say, $4 a day at Starbucks setting you back nearly $500.
你很幸运，因为父母帮你承担了大额的支出——学费、住宿费和伙食费及回家的交通费。但亲爱的孩子，剩下的就要靠你自己了。以你现在有限的赚钱能力，最后负债累累，那将非常丢人(大四学生平均可透支3000美元)。所以估算一下你未来17周的支出，与你现有的可用资金进行权衡。查看整个学期的情况——而不单是一周——明确一再重复的支出加起来是多大一笔费用——比如说，在星巴克一天花4美元买咖啡，累积起来就是500美元。
Separate your spending into categories, such as books, laundry, entertainment, food and beverages (spare me the details about what kind of beverages). “Keep an envelope for each, and place all of your receipts in those envelopes so you can go back and count what you spent where,” says Douglas Andrew, author of Millionaire by Thirty. "That way you'll quickly recognize where you may be going overboard." Make adjustments as needed.
将你的支出分门别类，比如课本费、洗衣费、娱乐消费、伙食、饮品(不必告诉我你都喝了些什么)。“为每一类支出准备一个信封，将你所有的收据放到那些信封中，这样你就可以回头看看自己将钱花在哪里，”《三十而富》的作者道格拉斯·安德鲁如是说，“通过这种方法，你可以很快得知自己哪里的支出超出了预算。” 如有需要，作一些调整吧。
But when you add to one category, be sure you subtract[减] from another. If money runs tight, don't default to a part-time job unless you'd really enjoy it or it's truly a last option. You worked hard all summer and saved enough to get by. Cut your expenses instead. That's a lifetime skill worth developing now.
一项支出增加，另一项就要减少。不要在收支紧张后就只想着去做兼职，除非你真的喜欢或者别无选择。你整个夏天都在努力工作，才勉强熬过来。还不如削减开支呢。这是一项受益终身的技能，值得现在开始培养。
I have a confession : In the past few months I have—without telling you—thrown away at least a dozen credit card offers to you. This bombardment will continue when you move to campus. They will not stop the barrage , and even without me as your guardian filter, I hope you'll keep throwing the offers away. You need only one—a Visa, a MasterCard or an American Express注. Never charge more than 30 percent of your credit limit and pay in full every month. But just to be safe, authorize an appropriate automatic monthly payment to protect you from late fees and a credit blemish.
我得承认：我在过去的几个月里——之前没有告诉你——帮你扔掉了好些信用卡申请表。即使你搬到学校，这种轰炸还会继续。他们不会停止进攻，即使没有我这个防护过滤器，希望你可以继续扔掉那些申请表。你只需要一张——一张Visa卡、万事达卡或者美国运通卡。不要透支信用卡限额的30%，并且每月都要还清欠款。为了安全起见，设置合适的月度自动还款系统，避免需要缴纳滞纳金或者造成信用不良记录。
Even if you don't have to, take at least one economics and one personal finance course. High schools don't teach much about budgets and credit or supply and demand. These courses will open your eyes to how much money works in the real world and introduce you to practical skills you'll use the rest of your life. They will also, finally, give you an inkling of what your dad's been writing about for 25 years.
选修至少一门经济学和一门个人理财课程，即使学校没有要求你这样做。中学教育并没有传授太多有关预算和信用，或者供求关系方面的知识。这些课程会让你认识到金钱在现实社会中如何运作，让你学到终身受用的实用技巧，也让你终于对爸爸25年来所写的内容有一个大致的了解。
Don't get caught up in talk on campus about which majors are the best stepping stones to financial success. You'll hear plenty of that from kids who want or may be under pressure to get a quick return from their education. Forget them. Many of those kids will end up
disliking their jobs and muddling through so-so careers. You can make a great living doing almost anything, as long as you love it. So take risks. Explore. Switch majors. Get your
head out of the books and do something surprising. There's time. But find your bliss and pursue it. Go ahead and get fluent in Spanish and study abroad if that makes your heart sing. Your knowledge and experience will pay off later on, I promise—just as you'll be rewarded for the joy you bring to tasks that excite you.
不要相信校园里那些关于什么专业是财富的垫脚石的谈论。你会听到很多这样的谈论，它们都是来自于那些渴望或者急于想从教育中得到快速回报的孩子。不要去理会。那些孩子将来大多不喜欢他们的工作，只是在平淡的职位上混日子。只要你喜欢，你可以做你想做的一切事情。所以去冒险吧，不断探究，转专业。从书本的框框条条中跳出来，做一些令人惊奇的事情。你有足够的时间。发现自己的幸福所在并努力追求。如果你的心为此雀跃，练就一口流利的西班牙语，出国留学吧。我保证，你所学到的知识和经历将会给你带来回报——正如那些让你兴奋的事儿给你带来的快乐一样。
So that's it, Lexie. Of course, I'll be available for more advice anytime—for the price of a phone call. Judging by how eagerly you packed your things, though, I recognize that my time would be ill-spent sitting in front of the telephone waiting. That's okay, I won't. We're both ready.
就说这么多吧，莱克西。当然，我随时会为你提供建议——只要你付得起话费。不过看到你如此急切地打包行李，我意识到自己可能要在电话机旁边无比煎熬地等待下去。没关系。我不会这样做。我们都准备好了。
Love always,
Dad
永远爱你的
爸爸
篇二:《一位爸爸写给女儿的信》
一位爸爸写给女儿的信：不要讨好男人
(双语)
编辑点评：如果说女儿是爸爸上辈子的情人，那么爸爸这辈子定会尽全力的保护女孩儿，下面是一位爸爸写给自己宝贝女儿的信，关于女儿未来的幸福，爸爸有话想说。
一位爸爸写
给女儿的信：关于你未来的那个他
Dear Cutie-Pie,
我的宝贝小甜心：
Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was "How to keep him interested."
最近我和你妈妈准备在谷歌上搜一个答案。还没输完整个问题，谷歌就显示了一列世界上最常见的搜索。其中排在第一的是“怎么能让他一直对我感兴趣”。
It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior。
这让我有点震惊。我浏览了无数相关的论文，这些文章都是关于女孩如何性感保持美丽，什么时候给他送上一杯啤酒和三明治，以及如何让他觉得聪明和有优越感。
And I got angry。
我怒了。
Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to "keep him interested."
亲爱的宝贝，你从来，完全都不需要，“让他一直对你感兴趣。” Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul -- in that unshakeable place that isn&0#39;t rattled by rejection and loss and ego -- that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day。)
亲爱的，你唯一的任务就是不断去了解自己的灵魂——你不该让拒绝、失去和自我占据那个不可撼动的领域——这样你才值得被喜
欢。(如果你还能知道每个人都值得被喜欢，那么你的人生已经基本赢了。改天我会在另一封信里再写这部分。){一封父亲给女儿的信}.
If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both
capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you。
如果你相信自己的价值，那么你的魅力就能用最重要的这句话来形容：你会吸引有能力去爱你同时也想花一辈子时间好好爱你的男生。
Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn't need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting。
亲爱的，我想告诉你，不用刻意在男生面前保持新鲜感，他会知道你的好和魅力所在。
I don&0#39;t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table -- as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can't stop looking。
我不介意他吃饭时会不会把手放桌子上——只要他会把注意力放在你身上，哪怕你大笑时鼻子都发出了怪声，还是止不住的一直看着你。
I don’t care if he can&0#39;t play a bit of golf with me -- as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you。
我不介意他不会陪我打高尔夫——只要他能和孩子们玩得开心，并且陶醉于孩子们和你是多么地相像。
I don&0#39;t care if he doesn't follow his wallet -- as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you。
我不介意他忘带钱包——只要他全心爱你如初，一直不离不弃。 I don&0#39;t care if he is strong -- as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart。
我不介意他是不是强壮——只要他能够给你足够空间，让你去不断锻炼内心的力量。
I couldn't care less how he votes -- as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart。{一封父亲给女儿的信}.
我一点也不关心他为谁投票——只要他每天早上醒来，都能把你“选”为家里的荣耀和他心中的女神。
I don't care about the color of his skin -- as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness。
我不介意他的肤色——只要他能用耐心、牺牲、奉献和温柔的笔触在你人生的画布上尽情挥绘。
I don’t care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion -- as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred。
我不介意他是否有宗教信仰——只要他从小到大都信仰神圣，也知道生命的每个时刻，和你在一起的每分钟，都是非常神圣的。 In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:
最后，亲爱的，如果你遇到了这样的男人，哪怕我和他完全没有共同点，我们都会有一个最重要的共通之处：
You。
那就是你。
Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to "keep him interested" is to be you。
最后，亲爱的，想要让他一直爱你如初的话，你唯一需要做的就是做你自己。
Your eternally interested guy,
永远爱你的
Daddy爸爸
篇三:《爸爸给女儿的信(情真意切,十分令人感动)》
给女儿的一封信
亲爱的女儿：
从你的生命诞生起，你就时刻牵动着爸爸的心。世界上每天都会有成千上万的孩子出生，唯独你降生在我们这个家庭，这是难得的缘份。我是幸福的，因为有了让我自豪的女儿。你是幸运的，因为你拥有用全部身心去关爱你的爸爸。我们的心灵是相通的，我们的命运是相联的。
你是我血液里流动的生命。为了你，我愿意付出所有，不惜一切地疼你、爱你。我宠你，但不会盲目地骄惯你，那样只会害了你。我要让你懂得珍惜生活中的每一个人、每一件事。在生活中，我们是亲人，但更是朋友。你可以毫无顾忌地与我谈心，就像无所不谈的知己一样。
有时，也许我会对你发脾气，希望你知道，这都是为了你好，只是爸爸用错了方式。更多的时候，我会与你促膝谈心，给你讲人生道理，讲学习生活。孩子，要切记：做事容易，做人难。人生会经历很多坎坎坷坷，可你一定要坚强，一步一个脚印地走好人生的每一步。孩子，在你的成长中我也许做不到最好，但我能做得更好，你相信我吗？
你要健康地生活着，这是我所希望的。生命在于运动！要自觉地坚持运动，养成良好的卫生习惯和科学的生活习惯。要知道：健康的体魄才是生存的根本，才是实现人生奋斗目标的保证。
亲爱的孩子，我希望你是个踏实的人。不要投机取巧，不要苛求自己做不到的事。用一颗善人善己之心，去对待身边的人和事。要有一种坚韧的毅力和不断上进、持之以恒的精神，不向困难低头。遇事胜不骄、败不馁，保持健康平和的心态，只有这样，才能从容面对纷繁复杂的世界。
你一天天长大，会遇到比你强、比你优秀的人，你会发现自己身上有不少缺点，这也许会使你沮丧和自卑，但你一定要正视它，不要躲避，要一点点地加以改正，战胜自己远比征服他人更加重要。
你要懂得和珍惜感情，有一颗感恩的心，感恩父母的关爱，感恩老师的教诲，感恩同学的友情，感恩社会的帮助。要爱自己和爱他人，要懂自己和懂他人。要知道，爱是无私的，如果说爱是要求回报的话，那也只是希望你是一个健全的人、一个学有所成的人、一个富有感恩之心的人、一个对社会有用的人。你的健康成长就是对给予你爱的父母、老师、同学、社会的最好回报。
你的健康快乐就是爸爸最大的希望。爸爸会为你而自豪！
爱你的爸爸
2015年10月20日
篇四:《父亲给女儿的一封信》
父亲给女儿的一封信
今天，当你看到这封信时，已在湖南长沙，这是你独自出行的第一趟远门，当时我们还是很矛盾的，怕你不会照顾自己，但为了女儿的健康成长，也想着你的小翅膀一天天硬起来，终究要飞向蓝天，我们自信我的女儿有能力处理好自己的事，也就放心地让你独自出行。
想起你小时候，一幕幕从眼前掠过，好像还是昨天的事。在过去的日子里，有太多太多的故事，太多太多的感叹，太多太多的甜酸苦辣，一封短短的信又如何容纳得了呢？可我要告诉你的都是来自我心里的话。
当你还在你妈妈肚里的时候，我就把你视为我的骄傲！当你呱呱坠地第一声啼哭时，我就想，我们一定要好好善待和培育她。尤其是一出生就睁着眼睛，连护士阿姨都说不多见，着实讨人喜欢。成长过程中的每一件事都粒粒在目，喂你吃饭、抱你兜风、以为你感冒发烧到急诊结果你酣睡搞了个大笑话……一切的一切，我都做得心甘情愿，且其乐融融。你的每个第一次，如趴、说话、站立、走路、背唐诗、唱儿歌等等，我们都为你骄傲，也证明我们的担心是多余的。不知你还记不记得，送你上幼儿园我们离开时你哭个不停，在启明星学前班，你代表同学们上台讲话，校长和老师们都惊奇你认识那么多字，学习钢琴，只要你认真，老师弹一遍你 1{一封父亲给女儿的信}.{一封父亲给女儿的信}.
就会了，老师一个劲的夸你聪明，我们也为之骄傲，我现在回头看看，我的女儿是出类拔萃的。你善良忠厚、聪明伶俐、好学上进，而且孝顺、节俭、明理、诚信……是的，这是你的优点。当然，你也有一些小缺点，如想让大家都来关注你，对小弟弟小妹妹有点小妒嫉心，爱睡懒觉，还有点贪吃哦。当然，我们对你的要求可能太严，有时脾气暴躁，方法上有些不当之处，请你凉解，但是要理解，这是我们的义务和责任，都是为你好，是为了我的女儿能健康地成长。
我从未奢望我的女儿是一个天才，我只希望你有快乐的天性，健全的人格和健康的身体。记住女儿：快乐是人生的动力，自信是智慧的源泉。面对任何事物你会说：“行！我能行！”至少你可以说：“让我来试试。”
宝贝女儿，健康快乐有时和学习好是一对矛盾，爸爸也体会过学习的艰辛，当然我们那时的条件比现在苦多了，确实是吃不饱穿不暖，老爸我也想让你过自由自在没在约束的生活，不过你想，现在社会就业压力不断加大，老爸感到很无奈，看你写作业到12点，我也多次诅咒这万恶的应试教育。但是，在这个学习竞争空前的年代，如果别人在努力，你不努力，其结果只能被淘汰。
女儿，这是写给你的第一封信，不要觉得老爸烦了，如果没有这次夏令营活动，第一封信不知何年才写，我们要感谢中联重科股份有限公司。
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最后，爸爸妈妈期待你的进步，希望你好好学习，严格要求自己，活得丰富、充实，有美好的前途。{一封父亲给女儿的信}.
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篇五:《父亲写给女儿的一封信》
父亲写给女儿的一封信
《知识是你最可信赖的》
亲爱的孩子：
爸爸并不认为自己有任何资格，可以给你有价值的人生忠告，相反，在守望着你长大的日日夜夜里，看着你成长的无言喜悦，看着你从蹒跚学步到亭亭玉立的变化，与你一起生活带来的启迪、挑战和思考，倒仿佛使我重新更清醒地经历了一遍童年，这是你带给爸爸的独一无二的收获和快乐，这种